Current music favorites: BRIAN ENO - MUSIC FOR AIRPORTS MOBY - 18 & 18 B-SIDES BUSH - BLACK AND WHITE RAINBOWS THE CHAINSMOKERS - MEMORIES... DO NOT OPEN DAVID BOWIE - LEGACY TWIN PEAKS - ORIGINAL SOUNDTRACK (1990) BONOBO - MIGRATION BOARDS OF CANADA - TOMORROW'S HARVEST 311 - MOSAIC THE NATIONAL - TROUBLE WILL... Continue Reading →
6.23.17 Dating & Relating in the High Desert (Journal)
One of the questions I get asked most by close friends and family is.. "Are you seeing anyone? What's your personal life like?" Well, I live in the middle of a desert (lol.) Albuquerque, to be exact. There isn't exactly the biggest dating pool here, let alone, anything sizable dating population for gay men in... Continue Reading →
6.22.17 Tech Reviews: Microsoft’s Surface Laptop is “Simply Stunning.”
Read my review on my Tech Review page, or click below: http://wp.me/P8NfHw-2A
6.21.17 Blue Period (Poem)
Blue Period Poem by Brian Bolding Photo from texasescapes.com 6.21.17  Suffocating silhouettes, Route 66 abandoned gas stations call to me Smoking too many cigarettes Thoughts that live in infamy…  (Languishing away in a coffeeshop on a Saturday Vignettes of loneliness Scattered through my mind If only I had the courage To stand up... Continue Reading →
6.20.17 A Fatal Overdose of Nothing (Poem)
A Fatal Overdose of Nothing By B Bolding 3.16.16  I want a mystery man To hold me in the moonlight Get my rocks off Throw me into a pool of ecstasy And I want a fatal overdose A fatal overdose of nothing Don’t touch me, I don’t even care Don’t look at me, don’t... Continue Reading →
6.20.17 B-Ware (My June 2017 Tech List)
Newest tech that has passed across my desk this month: -Microsoft Surface Laptop (2017, Cobalt Blue, i5, 256GB, 8GB Ram) -HP 201 Mini (2010) -Commodore C64 (2) and 2 Pro Models -2 Commodore Floppy Drives -1 Commodore Pro Floppy Drive With all this new and old tech, I am feeling pretty nostalgic and excited, I... Continue Reading →
6.19.17 City Sleeps & Sidewalk Sweeps (Poem)
City Sleeps & Sidewalk Sweeps By Brian Bolding As the night comes to a close A lone black man reads his prose Standing on a stage in an empty bar Singing to the passing of a car The whistling winds skirt past The daylight never lasts A couple fights 14 stories up A drunk... Continue Reading →
Writing as Therapy for Gay Men.
October 27, 2011 From my private journal. Writing as Therapy for Gay Men By Brian Bolding As a gay man in today’s world, we need to equip ourselves with tools to make sure we get through the days. I found early on in my life that I needed a creative outlet to channel... Continue Reading →
6.18.17 Father’s Day (Poem)
 Fathers Day by Brian Bolding  You raised us You raised us so well At the time I thought Living with you was living hell  You raised us You taught us to be strong I kicked and I screamed And I hated it all along  You raised us up You taught us to... Continue Reading →
My Hate Crime Story.
The following story is an edited excerpt from Chapter 13, ‘Growing Pains,’ from my first novel, Sweet Pea, which I wrote from 1990-2005. It includes information from previous and later chapters, so as to convey the story best in this format. This story is a graphic and offensive, but completely true account, of a hate... Continue Reading →